Kuwait is a very rich country, as most people know. It's the 11th most oil producing country in the world, and it only supports a local population of a little over a million natives. The oil companies are run by the government, so most Kuwaiti citizens get generous monthly stipends along with a lot of other perks. Of course, this creates a strong desire and tendency toward materialism and living for the moment.
It is not only Kuwaitis that get a lot of money, though. An additional two million foreign national workers also live here in order to make money and enjoy a better life than they might in their home countries. Kuwait needs servers to work in its hundreds of restaurants, engineers to extract oil and other byproducts, managers to operate the giant malls, military contractors to strengthen its army, and teachers to teach Kuwaitis and other students in school.
These ingredients create a powerful recipe for materialism and love of money. This is expressed in a myriad of ways, from Kuwaitis driving Maseratis and Lamborghinis to educators tutoring an additional 20 hours a week on top of their full time jobs. Many other workers who make less money live together in tiny apartments so they can save to buy their dream house back home.
Unfortunately, I'm not immune to this desire for material things. When I walk into The Avenues Mall, (which is becoming one of the largest malls in the Middle East), my heart is drawn toward many of the items that are on display. I'm tempted by all the delicious food from hundreds of restaurants that cater to every taste imaginable. While I normally dress casually and comfortably regardless of venue, my wife has mentioned the pressure that exists for women to be well-dressed; even the most conservative of women wear 3-inch heels under their abayas (black traditional dresses) and tote a Gucci bag alongside them.
At church, we face this issue because many who are here came to make money, predisposing us to allow money to slide into that "god" position. And like with every false god, we as humans try to protect it, defend it, and preserve it. In our sinfulness, we take the words of the Bible and twist them to suit our own agenda- I have been guilty of this on more than one occasion. I have thought in my heart that I don't really have to give sacrificially and I should just give whatever I feel like, avoiding the tithe. The problem with that was I never really felt like giving anything.
Thankfully, God has worked on my heart in this area. I have found myself giving more since I've come to Kuwait. I am realizing that all these miniature kingdoms that we try to build here in Kuwait or in our home countries do not last. Even if I kept every fil (Kuwaiti penny) for myself and was able to retire early, I would be unable to hold on to it. The more I try to save for myself, the more I want, and it becomes a never-ending desire for money. This is because if I look to money for security, prosperity and happiness, it will never satisfy. In fact, the more I crave it, the less happy I become.
Only God can provide me security, prosperity and happiness, and I won't necessarily get it in this life. In a country that lives for the now, I have to really work to focus my mind and thoughts on heaven. I will get all those THERE, not necessarily here. I may lose everything here, but I am guaranteed I will get it there. I have investments, including some in the stock market, and I have found it to be similar to gambling at times because anything can happen. Investing in eternity is no gamble, however. It is completely sure and I'll get 100 times what I put in on Earth. Jesus calls us to do this in Matthew 6:19-24.
So, while it feels at times like I'm just throwing away money when I tithe to the church or give to those in need, I need to remember that it is not. I am worshiping God by giving to Him and breaking that love of money that is so prevalent in the culture here. I want to build my house on the Rock of Jesus, rather than in the sands of Kuwait and this earth.
As a fellow expat in Kuwait, I agree with your analytical evaluation of the materialism here. Keep up the God work, brother!
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